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Thursday, June 24, 2010

6 THINGS TO DO BEFORE YOU SAY “I DO”



It might be (almost) every little girl's dream to get married but it's also (almost) every woman's intention to make the most of each minute she spends on Earth. And while marriage by no means spells the end of living life to its full potential, there is always going to be the other half to consider. So while you've the opportunity to do things entirely your way, try checking a few of these footloose-and-fancy-free must-dos off your list.

Travel Alone
Nothing feels as incredible as completely losing yourself in another country. Whether you stay a day or a year, give yourself the opportunity to experience the freedom of being utterly alone. You'll never feel so self-reliant or in control of your own destiny.

Acquire a hobby
It's time to indulge your interests – whether they include paper mache or parachuting. So what if your passion for collecting novelty tea cosies means trekking several hours to Swansea for their annual cosy-swap? Once you're married, you'll treasure the 'me time' that your hobbies will bring you, even if what you love is something as simple as meeting girlfriends for a monthly book club meeting.

Live on your own
No, not with Ma and Pa. Not with flatmates. And certainly not with your bloke. Spend at least one three-month stretch living completely alone. If you don't already, you'll learn to love your own company – an important lesson for every woman. And if you're planning on staying married and having children, you may never have this chance again!

Devote time to charitable causes
Figure out what it is you truly believe in – whether it's animal rights or resettling refugees. Spending a couple of hours each week making a difference in the community can put into perspective the everyday issues we all tackle in our relationships.

Learn useful things
Don't rely on the other people in your life to know how to change the tyre on your car, cook dinner for six, or back up your hard drive. Put your brain to good use.

Live dangerously
Do things on a whim. While you don't have someone at home worrying about you you can start your own business...take risks!